It’s not just getting any man. It’s about getting the man of your dream. Your kind of person. A man that willmake you fulfilled. It is possible to get that kind of man. Although getting the man of your dream may be tedious and tiring at times especially when you don’t have the right and necessary clues.It is possible to get married without manipulations
Some writers have propounded disappointing clues for women.They thought them to play tricks that made them regreted their actions in the long run.Ladies were taught to win the men’s heart through delicious meals, make-ups, skimpy wears, and more.They were told that food is the way to any man’s heart. So to get him just pass a pipe through his belly to bait him. Wrong!What happens once the meals are over? After the foods got digested? Not all men are gluttons like Esau.
The truth is Men love to date pretty ladies. When her intelligence matches his;then there is no better match. Men may loveto hunt for a lasdy but they hate rivalry. When its too competitive, some men easily back out. Some ladies love to play that delay game with the men they love. It is ussually regretful thing to do. Men may love any bold lady they come across. But their silent question is will she be submissive?wise They want their lady to be smart and wise ;but their silent question is will she be supportive at the same time. In so doing men try to protect his ego and back trails in terms of future.
Some ladies seek for men as a lady .The truth is that you need to understand how men think.Once you understand how they think; then you need to know enough to still be able to follow as though you don’t know anything. It’s a crazy logic being you are dealing with; you know. Anyway here are some more clues:
#1. Play down your wisdom and intelliegence delberately.Behave as his student intentionally. If you don’t , you will keep on arguing and fighting.It will only scatter things the more. If you know that you are wiser than him. Do not flaunt it. So that he won’t feel threatened. Rememebr that you are not trying to win a fight but a man over. If you observe that he is wiser than you can cope. No fears. Just try to read wider, read all the books you can. Not romance books! You know it is the mind building work you want to do here. Read wide to broaden your reasoning. This new level of thinking attained will impress him. Sharpen up your thinking so that you can brainstorm while together. Advance the frontiers of knowledge because men are logical being and they want to brainstorm. If your thinking is shallow then there will be a problem.
#2. Find out his passions and dreams; you should always try to wrap most of your discussion around there. That is the area of his interest. Ask him about his dreams, visions, interests and passion.Discuss him more than you discuss yourself. It is not going to remain like that forever. Common!
#3. Be a good conversationalist. Some men may forget food if they see a good female conversationalist. They can get enthralled! You just have to know what to discuss per time. I think by discussing in line of his job, career advancement, promotion, dreams,passions and more. You will get him carried away. Find out what are the things that make him tick? Try to figure it out through his friends,sibblings,parents ,et.al.Find out his interests and join him right there. Men sometimes get excited over meaningless games. You just try to celebrate that “meaningless” game and you will see him getting glued to you by the day.
#4. Ask questions about his future more than about his pasts. This is one area where some ladies blow it. Missing it because they tend be eager to learn everything all at once. To make him feel comfortable and secure with you,take it slowly. I wonder why ladies always want to know how bad he has been when you are already too involved.What different does it make. It’s in the past now. You can be sure that he’ll try to shy away from such talks. He will avoid you gradually becauseyou are a saint Mary. If you are too persistent concerning the past how can you see where he is heading? You can leave that topic till you have earned enough of his trust. And that takes time.
#5 . Don’t you ever think that sex will tie him down to you. Some are afraid of losing a man; so they try to tie him with sex, pregnancy and the likes. Don’t just give him sex so that you
Won’t regret of not having known his history whether or not he is H.I.V status
#6. Wise up! Talk about investment opportunities. Talk about how to increase his financial portfolios. Then He will love you more. It is not so much about you. It is more about who you want to win over. Until you have won him over, it is not yet about both of you. It will be a win-win but you will have to earn trust.
#7 try to make him feel comfortably secured. Try not to ask too much questions. Even then, ask more questions than you talk .Then, pose as his student, the reason being that some men love to be in control and they love to teach and feel important and as a very wise person. If you can help him polish that area, you will
